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you are so great sis….
thank you for your meaningful words ……
yes, our past is the foundation and we really learn and build in the present and for the future…..MARYOOMA
and you are so cute sis
i am glad to know my reflection to part of my life experince had made sense to you.
i hope inshallah you could share yours with us toothank you sis
I want to ask one question which is
Can we judge the person by his past?
plz answer wether yes or no and say why because it’s realluy a very important issue.
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Can we judge the person by his past
Hii dear…….
From my point of view ….I don’t think that it’s fair to judge others by their past…..
Coz……..if u do a mistak one day….& then u correct ur mistak…((.so that u have open a new page in ur live as we say in arabic))…..would u like others to even talk about ur past…..?! I thing the answer will be no…..that’s why u have to treat others as u like them 2 teart u ……and don’t judge others by their past………..
Haii sister
I do agree with you and in fact iam experiencing such a situation that is someone asked to marry me but my family refused because of his past and i see that he is a very straight person and the most important thing is that he knows Allah and he pray and never listen to music , so tell me what’s wrong with this gentle man?my family can’t understand it but i will try and try because the prophet mohammed said:
في ما معنى الحديث :إذا جائكم من ترضون دينه و خلقه فزوجوه … إلى آخر الحديث.
salam sister JasmiNLife offers so many opportunities to learn and grow. Through out this process people make mistakes but learn from each of them This is a natural and necessary part of the learning process. Sister I believe we should not be looking at anyone past but rather look at what have they achieved now and what level have they elevated their mind and soul to. “ Allah the most greatest is so merciful and forgives so what right do we have as humans with many sin!!!”
But sis many parents are a people of habit. they develop their opinions usually based on what people told them or through experiences. But when these beliefs become set and them carry it into the present without looking at things from a fresh viewpoint they tend to become robots of their thoughts. most think they know how a certain thing is suppose to be and that’s it! Growth stops. yet sister they are our parents and we have to obey them in all cases and try to convince them else I guess you just have to let go of him.
Overall we should open the doorway of our mind and heart and be willing to look at people and life from a different position–one not loaded by the walls and chains of prior actions and beliefs. Real growth is within our reach and that’s for this
generation us and the coming to achievei wish you all the best sister with your decision and may Allah guide you through it
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